Although there are aspects of life which are outside a single person's control, there are aspects of happiness which hinge upon your choices. Choose well and you'll probably be happier than if you choose badly.

So, in terms of women, what are you selecting? Are you choosing r

The tide is steadily rising of easy, simple, quick solutions to the age-old problem of finding a compatible mate. And, despite the differences of languages, cultures, religions and colors that divide the population of this planet into discrete groups, the quest for finding The One unites many of us.

But, what's with this recent proliferation of the love industry? Have we run out of yentas?

Well, relationships can be tricky things. There are some Lucky Larrys who have married their childhood sweethearts and then gone on to celebrate a 60-year Wedding Anniversary still happy and in love with the person that originally showed up at the alter.

Meanwhile, there are many other men that have been married and separated repeatedly and still can't seem to get it right except for picking divorce lawyers.

So what's the deciding factor? What makes for a happy relationship? What makes one couple have a successful relationship while another couple flounders?

Is it just luck?

Why do some men get the Woman Of Their Dreams while others get stuck with controlling women? Or, frigid women? Or, manipulative women?

Why do some men get supportive and loving woman, while other men introduce their female mate as the "Ball-buster" or the ever-popular "Bitch Wife"?

Well, the American Dream is built on the notion of choice. Just take a look in any grocery store – it's built on the belief that choice is paramount. It's not enough to have one type of cereal – we've got to have everything from Coco Puffs to All-Bran to Puffed Wheat. It's not enough to have one type of soft drink – we've got Coke, Pepsi, Royal Crown Cola, Root Beer, No-Name, orange, green, pink, blue, yellow, clear, lite and sugar free!

Although there are aspects of life which are outside a single person's control, there are aspects of happiness which hinge upon your choices. Choose well and you'll probably be happier than if you choose badly.

So, in terms of women, what are you selecting? Are you choosing re

But, what's with this recent proliferation of the love industry? Have we run out of yentas?

Well, relationships can be tricky things. There are some Lucky Larrys who have married their childhood sweethearts and then gone on to celebrate a 60-year Wedding Anniversary still happy and in love with the person that originally showed up at the alter.

Meanwhile, there are many other men that have been married and separated repeatedly and still can't seem to get it right except for picking divorce lawyers.

So what's the deciding factor? What makes for a happy relationship? What makes one couple have a successful relationship while another couple flounders?

Is it just luck?

Why do some men get the Woman Of Their Dreams while others get stuck with controlling women? Or, frigid women? Or, manipulative women?

Why do some men get supportive and loving woman, while other men introduce their female mate as the "Ball-buster" or the ever-popular "Bitch Wife"?

Well, the American Dream is built on the notion of choice. Just take a look in any grocery store – it's built on the belief that choice is paramount. It's not enough to have one type of cereal – we've got to have everything from Coco Puffs to All-Bran to Puffed Wheat. It's not enough to have one type of soft drink – we've got Coke, Pepsi, Royal Crown Cola, Root Beer, No-Name, orange, green, pink, blue, yellow, clear, lite and sugar free!

Although there are aspects of life which are outside a single person's control, there are aspects of happiness which hinge upon your choices. Choose well and you'll probably be happier than if you choose badly.

So, in terms of women, what are you selecting? Are you choosing r

So what's the deciding factor? What makes for a happy relationship? What makes one couple have a successful relationship while another couple flounders?

Is it just luck?

Why do some men get the Woman Of Their Dreams while others get stuck with controlling women? Or, frigid women? Or, manipulative women?

Why do some men get supportive and loving woman, while other men introduce their female mate as the "Ball-buster" or the ever-popular "Bitch Wife"?

Well, the American Dream is built on the notion of choice. Just take a look in any grocery store – it's built on the belief that choice is paramount. It's not enough to have one type of cereal – we've got to have everything from Coco Puffs to All-Bran to Puffed Wheat. It's not enough to have one type of soft drink – we've got Coke, Pepsi, Royal Crown Cola, Root Beer, No-Name, orange, green, pink, blue, yellow, clear, lite and sugar free!

Although there are aspects of life which are outside a single person's control, there are aspects of happiness which hinge upon your choices. Choose well and you'll probably be happier than if you choose badly.

So, in terms of women, what are you selecting? Are you choosing r

Well, the American Dream is built on the notion of choice. Just take a look in any grocery store – it's built on the belief that choice is paramount. It's not enough to have one type of cereal – we've got to have everything from Coco Puffs to All-Bran to Puffed Wheat. It's not enough to have one type of soft drink – we've got Coke, Pepsi, Royal Crown Cola, Root Beer, No-Name, orange, green, pink, blue, yellow, clear, lite and sugar free!

Although there are aspects of life which are outside a single person's control, there are aspects of happiness which hinge upon your choices. Choose well and you'll probably be happier than if you choose badly.

So, in terms of women, what are you selecting? Are you choosing r

Although there are aspects of life which are outside a single person's control, there are aspects of happiness which hinge upon your choices. Choose well and you'll probably be happier than if you choose badly.

So, in terms of women, what are you selecting? Are you choosing real women or the controlling women? Are you picking out the bitchy women? The manipulative women? The abusive women? And if you are, how do you fix this?

Well, rather than selecting a house with a crumbling foundation and continuously trying to prop it up before it comes crashing down in a devastating blow around your ears, it could be time to start with something that's of better quality.

Modern-day technology assists us the challenge of curing cancer, developing non-stick frying pans and creating spray-cheese-in-a-can. However, sometimes it's just good old-fashioned brain power that can help you get what you want – The Woman Of Your Dreams!

But, if you're constantly ending up with the wrong women, you could be using the wrong criteria for choosing a woman. Maybe it’s time for a reality check.

Top 10 Worst Reasons for Choosing a Woman.

10. Your electric blanket doesn't work and you need something to warm the bed.

9. You can't stand your own cooking.

8. Your place is a pit and someone has to clean it up.

7. You really miss having pantyhose drying in the bathroom and you can't find any in your size.

6. You're jealous because other guys get nagged more than you do.

5. Your right hand has sustained an injury.

4. You're 35 and need to end up with somebody.

3. You're tired of having just too much money in your bank account.

2. You think you're missing out because you haven't spent a year planning an event that's not about you.

1. Your mother wants grandchildr