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Digg it UP - The Arguement Women Can't Win
Get out of your comfort zoneI know a lot of people out there who are dead set on staying within a certain comfort zone. I’m not one to do the same things the same way all the time. I like to explore, try new ways, do different things – but it’s natural for me. I was born this way. For those of you who have a hard time getting out of your comfort zone,
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“Vitally important for a young man or woman is, first, to realize the value of education and then to cultivate earnestly, aggressively, ceaselessly, the habit of self-education.” -BC ForbesEducation is extremely important to any successful investor. Education can come in many different flavors. Some people have been given the opportunity to seek higher
While the discussion was logical and factual, it had the similar feel of a business meeting where everyone has the sole goal of finding the answer to the problem. No one would dare interject their feelings into such a discussion for fear they would be viewed has weak and childish. In the business world, accomplishing the task is the primary goal, not making everyone feel good. This is how a man views a discussion that is logical and factual. He believes that if her idea is so good then she should be able to prove it. "She wants to prove her point so I'll prove mine. May the best man win," is how he thinks and has no idea that she only wants to be heard/understood. When women interject their feelings into a discussion that has become competitive, it makes men feel as though they are being blamed for being logical which causes them to react in anger. Men say to themselves, "She ask me to prove my point and when I do she gets her feelings hurt!" He has been blind sided by the one thing that makes him feel powerless, a woman in pain. The man feels tricked by acting strong only to pull the feelings card out when she was starting to loose the argument so now he feels entitled to punish her. That really is how most men think in that scenario.
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The sad truth is that we will not escape this lifetime alive. It’s an undeniable fact that will eventually give everyone of us pause to consider our mortality. Whether we believe in an afterlife or higher power, we will still move on to another place. And when that time arrives, what will we leave behind?Obviously, parents will leave offspring. Hope
While the discussion was logical and factual, it had the similar feel of a business meeting where everyone has the sole goal of finding the answer to the problem. No one would dare interject their feelings into such a discussion for fear they would be viewed has weak and childish. In the business world, accomplishing the task is the primary goal, not making everyone feel good. This is how a man views a discussion that is logical and factual. He believes that if her idea is so good then she should be able to prove it. "She wants to prove her point so I'll prove mine. May the best man win," is how he thinks and has no idea that she only wants to be heard/understood. When women interject their feelings into a discussion that has become competitive, it makes men feel as though they are being blamed for being logical which causes them to react in anger. Men say to themselves, "She ask me to prove my point and when I do she gets her feelings hurt!" He has been blind sided by the one thing that makes him feel powerless, a woman in pain. The man feels tricked by acting strong only to pull the feelings card out when she was starting to loose the argument so now he feels entitled to punish her. That really is how most men think in that scenario.
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Today, the internet makes applying for a bad credit mortgage easy and convenient. Before, savvy buyers had to contact several lenders by phone or in person to request quotes. This process was time consuming and exhausting. Through online mortgage lenders, your application is immediately reviewed and approval notifications are provided within hours.
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If you want to spend your life helping people live better lives, then you should consider applying for health care jobs. You don’t have to go to college or study for seven years and become a doctor to help other people. There are jobs that are as important, and require less time in school. The wages and hours in health care vary, but the basic fundamentals are t
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This is the third in a series of articles about the internationally collected sculptor, Nina Winters.When I spoke with Nina from her studio in Clearwater, Florida, I found out that she was awarded yet another major monumental sculpture. This project is to create the central sculpture for a new Native American themed resort.The 10 foot high $250,00
If you are a woman, a practical rule when discussing a topic is that if you want to debate, prove or compete with your boyfriend/husband then stay in that role throughout the discussion. If you want to be understood or nurtured, then relate to him by sharing how you feel about the subject. Don't switch to becoming a soft, feeling and vulnerable woman after you have presented yourself logically. All that will do is encourage him not to discuss things with you in the future. He'll be afraid of you dropping the feelings bomb.
Most of the time I would suggest that you start off softly by speaking to him about how you feel concerning the issue so he can recognize your feelings which will signal to him that you are not trying to be competitive. On the occasions you do need to prove your point, hold your ground regardless of how you feel. Remember it doesn't matter as much which way you relate to him, the most important thing you can do is not to combine the two.
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