it is because you cannot control and manipulate them? Not to be insulting or insinuating, rather to point out that other organizations use this posture and advice to control. Examples - Religion, societies, coaches, schools, governments, etc.

If the group cannot answer that question then ask them this one: Is your group afr

Have you ever considered how many organizations require that your give up your ego before joining? Do you know why? Because they are afraid of anyone which such high self-esteem that they might take over or can think for themselves and thus you ought to be very weary of any group, political organization, club, religion or non-profit endeavor which demands that you ditch your ego.

You will be amazed at the lengths to which they will go to deflate your self-confidence, self-esteem and ego. One trick is to use social conditioning, calling you arrogant or rewarding you for self-critique. Often they will dodge questions and insist that you are not yet worthy to know certain information, secrets or that your questions are invalid until you have been in the group for a while.

College Professors use this to demand obedience - it is a tactic of control and nothing else. If you surrender yourself you have only yourself to blame. If you need to belong so badly that you will handover self, you will lose either way. It is much better to quit while you are ahead and confront them another day. If a group tells you that ego is bad, ask them; Why is your group afraid of people with an "ego" as that is somewhat puzzling to me?

See what they say and if they cannot give you any decent rational then ask them if it is because you cannot control and manipulate them? Not to be insulting or insinuating, rather to point out that other organizations use this posture and advice to control. Examples - Religion, societies, coaches, schools, governments, etc.

If the group cannot answer that question then ask them this one: Is your group afra

it endeavor which demands that you ditch your ego.

You will be amazed at the lengths to which they will go to deflate your self-confidence, self-esteem and ego. One trick is to use social conditioning, calling you arrogant or rewarding you for self-critique. Often they will dodge questions and insist that you are not yet worthy to know certain information, secrets or that your questions are invalid until you have been in the group for a while.

College Professors use this to demand obedience - it is a tactic of control and nothing else. If you surrender yourself you have only yourself to blame. If you need to belong so badly that you will handover self, you will lose either way. It is much better to quit while you are ahead and confront them another day. If a group tells you that ego is bad, ask them; Why is your group afraid of people with an "ego" as that is somewhat puzzling to me?

See what they say and if they cannot give you any decent rational then ask them if it is because you cannot control and manipulate them? Not to be insulting or insinuating, rather to point out that other organizations use this posture and advice to control. Examples - Religion, societies, coaches, schools, governments, etc.

If the group cannot answer that question then ask them this one: Is your group afr

thy to know certain information, secrets or that your questions are invalid until you have been in the group for a while.

College Professors use this to demand obedience - it is a tactic of control and nothing else. If you surrender yourself you have only yourself to blame. If you need to belong so badly that you will handover self, you will lose either way. It is much better to quit while you are ahead and confront them another day. If a group tells you that ego is bad, ask them; Why is your group afraid of people with an "ego" as that is somewhat puzzling to me?

See what they say and if they cannot give you any decent rational then ask them if it is because you cannot control and manipulate them? Not to be insulting or insinuating, rather to point out that other organizations use this posture and advice to control. Examples - Religion, societies, coaches, schools, governments, etc.

If the group cannot answer that question then ask them this one: Is your group afr

r self, you will lose either way. It is much better to quit while you are ahead and confront them another day. If a group tells you that ego is bad, ask them; Why is your group afraid of people with an "ego" as that is somewhat puzzling to me?

See what they say and if they cannot give you any decent rational then ask them if it is because you cannot control and manipulate them? Not to be insulting or insinuating, rather to point out that other organizations use this posture and advice to control. Examples - Religion, societies, coaches, schools, governments, etc.

If the group cannot answer that question then ask them this one: Is your group afr

it is because you cannot control and manipulate them? Not to be insulting or insinuating, rather to point out that other organizations use this posture and advice to control. Examples - Religion, societies, coaches, schools, governments, etc.

If the group cannot answer that question then ask them this one: Is your group afraid of the "Unreasonable Man" who causes change, yet simultaneously promotes change using only their vision? And to that point, who is in charge of this vision? Is it a mystical "Wizard" and if he, she, it has no ego, self-esteem, self-confidence or strength of character why would one follow?

Further you might consider Groucho Marx who asks; "Why would I join a group, who would have me as a member?"

Start asking questions. Have you ever wondered why people strap bombs to themselves to die in battle for Allah? You would think that they would ask their handlers, well why don't you die in battle for Allah, are you chicken - you go first? Why is it that these young people fall for this trickery? Why would someone join a group of followers of an ideal that they have problems defending its merits, ethics, hypocrisy and so on and will not lead by example?

The reality is that the meek inherit nothing, why do religious groups perpetuate yet another myth, while working hard to bust the others? Look here is the deal, any group or organization which is afraid of your strength of character is filled with lesser and why would you join a group of losers who have less self-esteem than you. And to that point, why would you even care to lead such a group even if they gave you’re the