Divorced Parents Competing With Each Other Hurt Their Children

When parenting after divorce, some parents attempt to punish each other and in the process add to the emotional anguish of their children. When divorced parents learn to keep their focus on their children instead of remaining obsessed about their unresolved issues with each other, everyone in the family will experience more happiness. This happens when parents realize that no one loves a child less after a divorce and children caught in the middle of their parent's divorce may not fully experience love from others.

The Opposite of Love

How do you deal with the emotional fall out of an acrimonious divorce? Hate is simply the reverse side of the coin to love. You cannot hate someone unless you have very strong feelings about them. When you are consumed with hurt and rage hatred may feel like a more constructive outlet than love, but is it?

But - He Is A Wonderful Father

I was recently involved in a rather contentious settlement negotiation with my client, his ex-wife and her attorney. The issue involved the proposed elimination of my client’s child support obligation to his ex-wife for their child.

Debunking Divorce Myths

There are numerous misconceptions when it comes to divorce. Often, situations which could be resolved fairly amicably become highly contested because one of the parties is operating under the mistaken belief that the myth is actually the reality. Below are three of the most common misconceptions.

Divroce - Pain and Rebirth

Divorce is a painful experience that our married friends sometimes just don't get. We need to go through that pain and then re-create a life for ourselves that is better and more fulfilling.

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Divorce Advice, Two Roads To Travel On Your Divorce Separation - The high road, or the low road. The higher road is more secure. There is dignity on the higher road.

Exactly - How Long Should Grief Last

Most people who have never suffered the loss of someone they love will say many things to you that make absolutely no sense at all. Don’t worry about it; they have no clue. These people mean well. They may be your friends or co-workers or just casual acquaintances.

How To Know If It Is Time For Divorce

You and you alone are responsible for your happiness level. The spark in your marriage was there at one time, can you get it back? Lack of communications between spouses is a typical cause of divorce considerations, but it may not be too late if both spouses are willing to work at it.

California Summary Dissolution - The Easy Way to Get Divorced

There's a quick, easy way to get a divorce called a summary dissolution. In a summary dissolution you won't have to talk to a judge you will only need to fill out a few forms.

Avoiding a Divorce – Getting the Work/Life Balance Right

It's sad but true that many relationships fail because people get the Work/Life balance wrong. There is more pressure than ever for both men and women to put in the hours at work. This can put a strain on even the most stable of marriages.

How To Take Control Over Your Divorce

During the divorce process, you can feel like a victim. Your living situation, your relationship with your children, and the role you played as a spouse are all being threatened. You may have based much of your identity on these factors. Therefore, this victimization can cut to the core. You do not have to be a victim.

How To Get A Divorce In Utah

A judge grants a divorce after your divorce form is submitted to the court, and all required appearances before the judge are completed. In uncontested divorce cases often times you do not even have to physically appear in front of court to get a divorce.

Maybe It's Time for a Divorce

There is a soaring divorce rate. Is that really the bad news?

A Quickie Divorce

Nowadays you can obtain a fast, quickie divorce. If your relationship has hit its last legs and you need to finish things, it's definitely a sound move. The alternative to a quickie divorce is a potentially long, drawn out, time consuming and expensive lawsuit, which I'm sure you'll agree is the last thing we want.